Date Coaching & Relationship Counselling
Struggling with modern dating? Feeling stuck in repetitive relationship patterns? Professional date coaching and relationship counselling can help you gain clarity, confidence, and real results.
A dating coach provides tailored guidance, practical strategies, and emotional insight to help you navigate the complexities of dating—from attracting the right partner to building a committed, lasting relationship.
What Is Date Coaching?
Date coaching supports individuals who may be experiencing challenges such as:
- Difficulty meeting compatible partners
- Low confidence or dating anxiety
- Repeated unsuccessful relationships
- Uncertainty about progressing to commitment
- Communication or emotional connection issues
Unlike generic advice, coaching is personalised to your values, goals, and relationship patterns—helping you make meaningful, lasting changes.

My Approach
I specialise in a psychology-informed, evidence-based approach to dating and relationships.
With over a decade of experience working with singles frustrated with dating, I bring both practical industry insight and therapeutic expertise.
My work integrates:
- Attachment Theory – Understanding how your early experiences shape relationship behaviour
- Psychodynamic Principles – Exploring unconscious patterns influencing your dating life
- Cognitive Behavioural Techniques (CBT) – Reframing unhelpful thoughts and behaviours
- Person-Centred Coaching – Supporting you in alignment with your core values
- Occupational Psychology - Using tested and efficient recruitment techniques
This holistic approach ensures we don’t just focus on “getting dates”—but on creating authentic, fulfilling relationships that last.
Who I Work With
I support individuals who are:
- Professionals seeking meaningful relationships
- Recently out of long-term relationships
- Experiencing dating burnout or frustration
- Wanting to improve confidence and self-worth
- Ready to move from casual dating to commitment
Why Choose Professional Date Coaching?
There is a wide spectrum of dating advice available—from surface-level tactics to deeper psychological support.
My approach stands apart by focusing on:
✔ Long-term relationship success (not quick fixes)
✔ Emotional intelligence and self-awareness
✔ Ethical, respectful dating practices
✔ Sustainable confidence and personal growth
About My Background
I am an HCPC registered psychologist, with lived experience of two marriages and plenty of dating fumbles. I met my second husband online when I was 40, using my dating principles, and started a family quite quickly after that.
I have worked as a professional dating coach since 2013 when I co-founded PassionSmiths, which is now part of Maclynn International—a leading global introduction agency.
This experience provides a unique perspective combining real-world matchmaking insight with psychological expertise.
Start Your Journey
If you're ready to transform your dating life and build meaningful connections, I’m here to help.
Book a session today and take the first step towards a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.
Book your session today
Date coach sessions last 50 minutes via Whatsapp or Teams video. Sessions fees are £180 pr session. Book your session in the diary below.
I work with any issue related to dating through to relationship commitment, these include but not limited to:
- understanding signals (how can I tell if they/he/she is interested in me)
- unable to get dates online or offline
- managing dating fatigue and frustrations around not be able to meet decent people
- dealing with rejection
- managing anxieties, panic and emotional overwhelm
- how to start online dating
- how to update online dating profile
- keep meeting the wrong type of person
- dealing with a jealous ex
- noticing red-flags
- dealing with red-flags
- understanding self-sabotage
- how to ignite conversation both on and off-line
- securing dates, first dates, second dates etc.
- navigating the initial stages of a budding relationship
- starting over after marriage
- how to manage a break-up
I have collaborated with a number of dating companies including:
Get in touch if you would like to know more, or simply book a session in my online diary.