Date Coaching & Relationship Counselling

Struggling with modern dating? Feeling stuck in repetitive relationship patterns? Professional date coaching and relationship counselling can help you gain clarity, confidence, and real results.

A dating coach  provides tailored guidance, practical strategies, and emotional insight to help you navigate the complexities of dating—from attracting the right partner to building a committed, lasting relationship.

What Is Date Coaching?

Date coaching supports individuals who may be experiencing challenges such as:

  • Difficulty meeting compatible partners
  • Low confidence or dating anxiety
  • Repeated unsuccessful relationships
  • Uncertainty about progressing to commitment
  • Communication or emotional connection issues

Unlike generic advice, coaching is personalised to your values, goals, and relationship patterns—helping you make meaningful, lasting changes. 

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My Approach

I specialise in a psychology-informed, evidence-based approach to dating and relationships.

With over a decade of experience working with singles frustrated with dating, I bring both practical industry insight and therapeutic expertise.

My work integrates:

  • Attachment Theory – Understanding how your early experiences shape relationship behaviour
  • Psychodynamic Principles – Exploring unconscious patterns influencing your dating life
  • Cognitive Behavioural Techniques (CBT) – Reframing unhelpful thoughts and behaviours
  • Person-Centred Coaching – Supporting you in alignment with your core values
  • Occupational Psychology - Using tested and efficient recruitment techniques

This holistic approach ensures we don’t just focus on “getting dates”—but on creating authentic, fulfilling relationships that last.

Who I Work With

I support individuals who are:

  • Professionals seeking meaningful relationships
  • Recently out of long-term relationships
  • Experiencing dating burnout or frustration
  • Wanting to improve confidence and self-worth
  • Ready to move from casual dating to commitment

Why Choose Professional Date Coaching?

There is a wide spectrum of dating advice available—from surface-level tactics to deeper psychological support.

My approach stands apart by focusing on:

✔ Long-term relationship success (not quick fixes)
✔ Emotional intelligence and self-awareness
✔ Ethical, respectful dating practices
✔ Sustainable confidence and personal growth

About My Background

I am an HCPC registered psychologist, with lived experience of two marriages and plenty of dating fumbles. I met my second husband online when I was 40, using my dating principles, and started a family quite quickly after that.

I have worked as a professional dating coach since 2013 when I co-founded PassionSmiths, which is now part of Maclynn International—a leading global introduction agency.

This experience provides a unique perspective combining real-world matchmaking insight with psychological expertise.

Start Your Journey

If you're ready to transform your dating life and build meaningful connections, I’m here to help.

Book a session today and take the first step towards a healthier, more fulfilling relationship.



Book your session today

Date coach sessions last 50 minutes via Whatsapp or Teams video. Sessions fees are £180 pr session. Book your session in the diary below.

I work with any issue related to dating through to relationship commitment, these include but not limited to:

  • understanding signals (how can I tell if they/he/she is interested in me)
  • unable to get dates online or offline
  • managing dating fatigue and frustrations around not be able to meet decent people
  • dealing with rejection
  • managing anxieties, panic and emotional overwhelm
  • how to start online dating
  • how to update online dating profile
  • keep meeting the wrong type of person
  • dealing with a jealous ex
  • noticing red-flags
  • dealing with red-flags
  • understanding self-sabotage
  • how to ignite conversation both on and off-line
  • securing dates, first dates, second dates etc.
  • navigating the initial stages of a budding relationship
  • starting over after marriage
  • how to manage a break-up

Keynote Speaker, Uk Dating Fair 2017

I have collaborated with a number of dating companies including:

Get in touch if you would like to know more, or simply book a session in my online diary.